Is there really an incapable man behind a frigid woman? I have my doubts about these kinds of blanket statements that do not have any sort of statistical backing except maybe feature in the Readers Digest which incidentally the above quote did about ten years ago.

What reminded me of this bullshit quote was a news piece about men being responsible for the level of sexual satisfaction between couples. Come again? There are enough men who are comfortable with their sexuality but are stuck with frigid babes who rather fake squeal the orgasm or take it lying 'corpse' down since sex for them is a dirty, base act.

The 2006 report reveals that "about half of South African men (45 percent) and women (51 percent) are not fully satisfied with their sex life", while a "keynote finding" shows that 50 percent of males and females interviewed globally "are not fully satisfied with their sex lives", says Mabotha.

He highlights that it "indicates that South Africa is consistent with the global trends" - that "one in two men and women around the world are not fully satisfied sexually".

Not fully satisfied? In my books thats a positive sign. There is some room to grow, experiment, enjoy and if nothing else get Viagra.