Things That Bang

Do you write to make your point of view known, to put your thoughts and words in front of people? If so then when you do that you automatically surrender control of how people will interpret and react to those thoughts. That shouldn't bother you. You can defend your ideas but you don not owe it to anybody to defend your personal life. That is nobody's business. When people make comments about your personal life it just tells you that they have run out of logical criticism and are resorting to random brickbats. Thats a compliment.
--------------Aditi Nadkarni